Did you check the instructions?
That’s what you hear when something is not working properly. Perhaps you should go check the manual. We get manuals for almost everything: cars, TVs, dishwashers, book shelves, etc. Most of the time, we refer to it AFTER something goes wrong.
What if you had a manual for your marriage? Would you wait until it is broken to read it? This is your how-to guide for a healthy marriage.
Read it. Refer back to it. Keep it nearby. Use it as a reference when you need it most.